Americans like fat books and thin women

The first post by A:

Well being a bigger woman doesn't give you the self confidence that a thinner woman has. But you have to remember that you are who you are and you can't change yourself overnight, don't be so worried about changing yourself.

YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO ACCEPT THE WAY YOU ARE!!!

I never imagined I would have a boyfriend, let alone be comfortable enough with him. The thing is men don't look at the little things we put ourselves down for. My boyfriend and I dated for over two years and I thought that I would never be comfortable enough to let him see me in a swimsuit.

I rememeber swimming at a man-made lake in our town and I was dreading the moment where i would need to take off my cover-up and get into the lake before he saw all of me and my curvy self. He took off his shirt and ran right in and I realized that he was going to watch me go in. I asked him to turn around or close his eyes. He didn't push it, so he did what I asked, but when I got in. He turned me toward him and looked in my eyes and told me I have nothing to be self-conscience about because I should be proud and feel beautiful the way that I am. I was still hesitant but I knew that he wasn't ashamed of me.

The point of my blabbering is that you shouldn't worry about trying to fix your self image. Work on the inside!

BE CONFIDENT AND PROUD OF WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE LADIES!!!!!!!!